Tag: Essays

  • Monday Blues

    It\’s the first Monday in August.  Five months left in the year.  Here are some questions to get you thinking:

    1.  What did you miss doing this summer?  List all the things you can think of.

    2.  What do you want to make sure you fit in this holiday season?  Again, list all the things you can think of.

    3.  What do you want to be able to say, in January, that you did during 2012?

    Write a paragraph or more for each of these.  Then move on to the next step.

    1.  Take your list and pick one summer thing, and schedule it for this week.  Then tuck the rest of your list and tuck it in the back of your calendar to put in next year\’s day planner.  Or, if you use an electronic calendar, then put the list on May 1, 2013, and call it \”For Planning This Summer.\”

    2.  Take your list and pick 5 things you can afford.  Now, schedule each of these things somewhere between November 1 and December 31.  Put the rest of the list at the end of your calendar or make a calendar entry for August 1, 2013.

    3.  Take your list of things you want to do this year and write three pages in your journal.  Ask yourself which of the things you\’ve listed you most want to accomplish and what is standing in your way of doing so.

    4.  Now, schedule time in the next week to get started.  Even 30 minutes spent pursuing your goal means you\’ll be that much closer to accomplishing it.

    5.  Schedule another 30 minutes for next week.

    6.  Now, go do it.

    And above all, Happy Monday!

  • Monday! Monday! It\’s Monday!

    It\’s the fifth Monday of the month!  I don\’t have any posts anywhere, so I can\’t use that as a topic, and it\’s Monday… which just isn\’t very exciting, right?

    But let\’s take a step back.  We have a lot to be grateful for.  So here\’s a quick list to kick-start your week and so we can remember all the abundance in our lives.

    1.  The internet.  It\’s a wonderful tool for communication!

    2.  Computers in general.  Again, wonderful tools that allow us to type, (so much so that my friends complain when I assign handwritten prompts!).

    3.  Good friends.  Both online and in-person, I am grateful for the connections I\’ve made.

    4.  Our pets.  If you\’re a pet person, you understand.  If you\’re not, you probably don\’t.  And that\’s okay.

    5.  Food in our bellies, roofs over our heads, and money in our pockets.  Abraham Maslow had it right – when the basics are taken care of, we can turn our minds to other tasks.

    For what are you grateful this week?  Tell me in the comments, I\’d love to know.

    I took this picture last October at the Skokie Lagoons in Illinois, USA.
    (Copyright 2011 A. Catherine Noon)

  • Sunday Box Talk

    On the Subject of Naps
    I\’m sitting here, exhausted after my first week of work after vacation, my second week of work ever at my new job that I love, and realized something.
    The reason I can\’t think of a good post is because I\’M TIRED!
    Duh.
    Then it hit me.  Sunday\’s Box Talk this week will be about – you guessed it – naps!
    When\’s the last time you took a nap?  When\’s the last time to got a good night\’s sleep?  If you have to think about it for a moment, it\’s been too long.  Do what you have to.  Take a sick day (only if you haven\’t just started a new job ~grin~), a personal day, a vacation day, hell, even a weekend day.  Declare it \”Nap Day.\”  If you have kids, outfit the living room with blankets, sheets, and build a fort out of the couch.  Lounge around in your pajamas and refuse to go outside.
    Rest.
    Most global traditions hold that the Creator rested at some point, be it the seventh day, or after weaving the world, or holding it up, or creating it out of dust.  Regardless of your religious traditions, or even in the absence of any, it just makes good sense.  Babies, cats, and dogs know it.  Horses know it.  Birds know it.  Naps are good for you.
    Excuse me, my couch is calling me.  It\’s time to nap.
    Happy napping!
  • Survivor, Not \”Victim\”

    I have been gratified by the strong focus on the survivors of the tragedy in Colorado, first on Anderson Cooper\’s show on CNN day-off and today on Facebook with a photo circulating of actor Christian Bale with one of the men involved in the shooting.

    My only frustration with this coverage is the word, \”victim.\”  These folks aren\’t \”victims,\” they are survivors.  A victim is someone at someone else\’s mercy, the recipient of the action, the powerless.  A survivor is someone who lives, triumphs, and is empowered.

    We are survivors of awful things, not the victims.  What doesn\’t kill us makes us stronger and we, together, can remember that we survive many horrible things.  We don\’t have to own the word \”victim,\” and we don\’t have to surrender our power to some sad, sick, nameless, mentally-ill individual with a gun.  Survive.  Triumph.

  • Tue Cent Twosday – Why “Guerrilla” Marketing?

    Why \”guerrilla\” marketing?  It lies in the definition of the concept of guerrilla warfare. First coined to describe the rebels in South America fighting better funded government adversaries, it means a small force, well-coordinated, using every tool at its disposal for maximum effectiveness at minimum cost – of life, time, resources, and money.

    Guerrilla Marketing is a term coined by author Jay Conrad Levinson in the 80’s and is a way of thinking about marketing for small businesses, as they compete against bigger, better funded corporate adversaries in the market. His books are wildly popular and I highly recommend them. The one I have in my own library and love is Guerrilla Marketing Excellence: The Fifty Golden Rules for Small-Business Success, by Jay Conrad Levinson, Houghton Mifflin Company, Boston and New York, 1993. It’s probably been updated since then, but the concepts are the same.

    In short, it’s figuring out how to market what you’re trying to market in the most effective and targeted way possible, without spending a lot of money and time that you don’t have. How does that affect us?

    What are our priorities as writers?

    Writing books. Duh. You can’t market what ain’t writ.

    What’s the next priority?

    Work/Life balance. Why do this if we become frazzled, unpleasant to be around, and bitchy? That’s not the way to happiness – nor is it the way to continued writing, unless perhaps you’re Hemingway. And we all knew how HE turned out.

    So. Here, in 5 steps, is Aunt Noony’s Guide to Guerrilla Marketing for Us Writers:

    1. Figure out what time you do have. When are your working hours? An hour before you go to the office for your day job? While the kids are napping or after they’re in bed? Figure out what time you have available to you.

    TIP: I recommend literally writing a list, like this:

    Sunday:
    Monday:
    Tuesday:
    Wednesday:
    Thursday:
    Friday:
    Saturday:

    Then fill in what you have as standing commitments and what time you have available for writing.

    2. Realize there are two parts of being an author: part 1 is being a writer, and all the creative stuff associated with it; part 2 is being an author, which is a business and all the left-brained stuff that implies. How much of the time available to you, do you want to spend on each? 50/50? 60/40? 100/0? Then parcel out the time you’ve found in Step 1 accordingly. If you have an hour a day, that’s 7 hours a week. 50/50 is 3.5 hours on writing, or 30 minutes a day, and 3.5 hours on marketing/business/accounting stuff, or 30 minutes a day.

    3. Figure out what marketing stuff you want/like to do. If you aren’t currently doing any, then pick ONE. Yes, I said ONE. Not ten. Not fifty-gabillion. Not message boards, and Facebook, and Twitter, and Pinterest, and Google+ and the other zillion “this is totally required for writerly success” social media whizbangs that come down the pike tomorrow. One.

    If you’re already doing marketing stuff, like a website, blog, FB, or Twitter, then figure out which ones you want to focus on when. For example, in our 30 minutes a day model: Sundays and Tuesdays, blog posts; Mondays and Wednesdays, FB posts (learn TweetDeck or HootSuite, they’ll save you lots of time and energy); Thursdays and Saturdays, Twitter posts and responses; and Fridays, respond to comments (or join a social board like Coffee Time and interact with folks).

    4. Once you know what outlets you’re focusing on, figure out what you’re saying. Sloan mentioned she doesn’t know what to blog about. Start with what stuff interests you. Me, it’s this: writing, editing, publishing business, marketing, character development, creativity, journaling, knitting, cats, coffee, and dark chocolate. THAT is my platform. My readers know what they’ll find when they come to a Noony post – something informative, sometimes funny, focused on writing, knitting, coffee or chocolate. (If you don’t believe me, check out my “essays” section on my website, and that’s pretty much how I’ve organized them.)

    TIP: You know how to write, and you know what to write about, or you wouldn’t have started writing books in the first place. Essays aren’t any different than fiction, really, in the sense that you’re telling a story about something. That “something” just happens to be in this real world around us, as opposed to our fictional worlds in our novels and short stories.

    EXAMPLE: Here is the schedule for my own blog, that I came up with myself (meaning, you can come up with one that fits for yourself):

    1. Sunday Box Talk (the 3 Boxes of Life)
    2. Monday – I have guest posts on other blogs on this day; stories and novels and stuff – NWO, Rachel Carmichael, IPO.  So keep this day for that.
    3. Tuesday – Two Cents day?  Talk about publishing and writing, and my work with it? Remember to keep it focused on the readers.
    4. Wednesday – Walking In This World.  How are things going today?
    5. Thursday – Thursday 13
    6. Friday – Flash fiction.  Use prompts?  Maybe on Twitter?
    7. Saturday – The Noonhour podcast.

    5. Do what’s fun. If you like talking with others, and talking about writing or your hobbies, then do that. Don’t wait for others to tell you what’s interesting, and for the love of Pete don’t listen to those who say that no one wants to hear what you have to say (and if you’re the one saying it, tell your Inner Critic to fuck off). It’s like writing books – trust yourself, and trust your voice.

    TIP: Come up with a list of five or six topics you can write about at the drop of a hat. These are the topics from which you’ll pull when you do guest posts. I might be writing M/M from a woman’s perspective, or character development, or any of a bunch of things that you’d talk about with other writers at a conference. When in doubt, here’s a list:

    • Why I write what I write 
    • How to develop a sympathetic character 
    • My four favorite writing tools 
    • Coffee and tea – which is more important for your writing? (This gets surprisingly many comments, since people are passionate on both sides of the fence) 
    • Common mistakes writers make and how to avoid them – even better if you include your own booboos and how you fixed them 
    • Research techniques you find useful 
    • Your favorite websites – no, really, the ones you go to when you’re supposed to be writing, and why 
    • Anything else you like to talk about or write about or argue about
    Let me know about your own ideas on guerrilla marketing or social media in the comments!
  • Writing with a Collaborator

    I\’m at the Samhain Publishing blog today, talking about writing with a collaborator. I hope you\’ll stop by! 🙂

  • Tue Cent Twosday

    We are driving up to the Pocono Mountains today to visit with family.  In the meantime, I wanted to share some marketing tips from fellow author, Mandy Roth.  Here is her article, \”Author Marketing Tips and Tricks.\”

  • Walking In This World

    One of the most obvious ways to ground is to work IN the ground, by gardening.  What I\’ve discovered about gardening is that weeding is like laundry – it never ends.  As you keep working in your garden, the weeds keep growing.


    The best part about gardening is the results of the growth.  I love seeing tomatoes turn red, and peppers finish growing.  We have chard that is getting huge and beautiful.  It\’s almost a shame to eat, since they\’re so pretty.  My lilies are opening and my curry plants have lots of yellow seeds that scent the air.


    Weeds remind me that daily maintenance yields positive results and that there is serenity in the everyday. 


    Do you garden?  What do you like to grow?

  • New Blog Today, and a New Job!

    LGBT Fantasy Fans and Writers has launched.  From the \”About Us\” page: \”Welcome to our little corner of the ‘net. This is going to be a blog that appreciates LGBT fantasy in all its forms and incarnations- books, movies, games, art, whatever! Dark, light, urban, epic, romantic, sword and sorcery, classic… We love it all.\”

    Together with Alex Beecroft, Jennifer Thorne, Kay Barisford, Melanie Tushmore, and Violetta Vane, I\’ll be talking about one of my favorite subjects – the fantasy genre in all its wonderful variety, and specifically looking at the GLBT subset within it. We will offer flash fiction, essays, and excerpts from our own works. I hope you enjoy!

    My first entry is up today, \”Worldbuilding – M/M Style.\” I talk about some of the unique challenges presented to authors of M/M romance as they venture into creating worlds of their own.  Stop on by!

    Today is also my day at the Writer\’s Retreat Blog, where I talk about new beginnings.

    In addition, I start a new job today.  I\’m very excited.  Wish me luck!

  • New Job Today!

    I\’m at the Writer\’s Retreat today, sharing some thoughts on working and writing.  Come on by!

    Writer\’s Retreat Blog

    Write on!

  • Tue Cent Twosday – Research

    The Nine Naughty Novelists blog hosts Rachel and I today and we talk about the pitfalls of research, as well as tips for success.  Join us!  \”Researching Beyond the Internet.\”

  • Join the Two Tauruses today! (and say that 10 times fast…)

    Stop by the Noon and Wilder Blog, Taurus and Taurus, for my thoughts on the perils of research.  I hope you enjoy!