Tag: postaday

  • Only One More Day ~sob~

    Rachel leaves tomorrow.

    Who wants to help me hide her in the closet so she can\’t leave?

  • Listening

    I\’ve been very busy this week, as you know, between the conference, my new job, and Rachel\’s visit. While I wish I could have had the opportunity to take this week off as vacation, I\’m grateful to have a job I enjoy and am good at.  As I learn the ropes, I\’ve been thinking a lot about listening.

    Speed is all well and good, as is efficiency. But the late Stephen Covey said you manage things, you lead people.  I\’ve noticed a growing trend where that idea is forgotten, and we try to speed up past the point where we can hear anything but the wind of our own passage, much less the people around us.

    Manners are there for a reason.  Do we really need to learn that the hard way?  They sprang up in a society that dueled and were a way of avoiding potentially life-threatening disagreements.  We\’ve forgotten that, and seem to think that manners are for the old or boring.  The slow.

    Today, I urge you to take a deep breath along with your morning coffee.  Make an effort to look at people when they talk to you, to let them get out what they have to say before you interrupt and ask questions.  I\’m not advocating listening to that one person who needs to talk without an off button.  What I am advocating is to be present to the people around us and to give ourselves the dignity of focusing fully on the task at hand.

    And remember, it\’s Friday.  TGIF!

  • Join Me at Beyond the Veil Today!

    I\’m blogging today at Beyond the Veil, where I get to wax poetic on historically significant characters vs. our modern \’canon.\’  Join me!

  • Galos Salt Caves

    As some of my readers are aware, I talked about the Galos Salt Caves in my recent guest post at Delilah Devlin\’s blog.

    Why is that relevant?

    Because we went tonight and I\’m relaxed and zoned out.

    Which, of course, explains the lack of werdz.

  • Tue Cent Twosday – In Defense of the Pen

    Diarists know what many of us have forgotten – people have been chronicling their own stories in diaries and journals for more than a thousand years. In order to better know themselves, or to express their own truth in the face of a public reality, or just for the fun of it, people have been writing for longer than some civilizations have been around.

    All that changed in the last 30 years with the advent, first, of the personal computer and then of the internet. We are seeing the first generation in the history of our planet that does not need to use the written word as it’s traditionally meant. In another generation, it will be unthinkable that some folks don’t know how to type – and it will, some predict, create a huge culture gap between those who have access to the internet and those who do not.

    But that’s not my purpose today. No, today I have a humbler calling. I simply wish to defend the simple, humble, pedestrian pen. Once known to by mightier than the sword, it is now relegated to the place next to the buggy whip: a beautiful piece of craftsmanship, but obsolete.

    But is it?

    I argue it is not. When we write, we connect ourselves to our physical or kinesthetic truth. The study of penmanship, or graphology, can tell us quite a bit about a person and, it follows, the practice of writing can therefore tell us a lot about ourselves. We cannot get a feel for the emotion of a typist unless it is through their word choices and syntax. Yet we can know at a glance the emotional state of a writer by whether the letters are calm and even or erratic and out of control. Did the writer tear the paper with their emotion? Are there teardrops on it? Lipstick? Did the writer press hard on the paper and leave ridges on the back, or did they leave barely an impression of themselves behind?

    Writing by hand can inform us of our shifting moods the way the tide can inform us of the moon’s gravitational effect on us. Subtle yet powerful, writing by hand connects us to ourselves and to our subconscious. Try writing with your non-dominant hand and you’ll see what I mean.

    There is beauty in writing, even that of an untrained hand. Lovers have known this for centuries. The personal, intimate handwriting of a loved one can bring comfort in dark times, solace to the lonely. When’s the last time you sent a letter through the mail? For less than half a dollar in the U.S., only a little more if you’re sending outside it, you can bring a smile to the face of someone for whom you care. In my group of friends, we call that “Non-Bill Mail.” If you save these letters, over time they become like a scrapbook, reminding you of moments in time encapsulated in an envelope.

    What would you preserve by hand if you had the time?

    Next time: “In Defense of Learning to Type”

  • Okay. It\’s Monday.

    So, I had this plan to write a bunch over the weekend and start my program back up with Monday.

    Yeah.  Three days at conference.

    Not gonna happen.

    Instead, stay tuned for tomorrow when I give you another in my ongoing series on the Pen vs. the Keyboard.  Who will win?  You be the judge.

  • Okay. It\’s Monday.

    So, I had this plan to write a bunch over the weekend and start my program back up with Monday.

    Yeah.  Three days at conference.

    Not gonna happen.

    Instead, stay tuned for tomorrow when I give you another in my ongoing series on the Pen vs. the Keyboard.  Who will win?  You be the judge.

  • Conferencing

    Still conferencing. Wow. Three days in a row is exhausting! Talk with you soon!

  • In the Trenches with the Writer Conference

    It\’s that time, folks, the long-awaited Third Annual Conference of the Evanston Writers Workshop.  We\’re picking up the programs from the printer today, and making centerpieces, and putting the final touches on everything.

    This afternoon, author Jody Lynn Nye will conduct her master class.  This evening, the cocktail party. Tomorrow morning, the main conference starts at 8:00 – wish us luck!  And if you\’re in the area, come on by and join us!  You\’ll be glad you did!

  • Join Me Today at the Torquere LiveJournal

    It\’s my day to take over the Torquere Press LiveJournal, Torquere_Social.  I have three posts planned throughout the day about how to get the most out of writing conferences.  Please join me and comment, ask questions, whatever your mood dictates.

  • VACATION!!!

    Well, not quite yet, but Rachel arrives today and I get to pick her up at the airport in the afternoon!!

    We\’re going to the Evanston Writers Workshop Third Annual In the Trenches with the Writer Conference this weekend. Very exciting!